Break the silence! Stop victim blaming! Stop the dehumanization of survivors of child sexual abuse and sexual assault! Learn to support us in distress and center our needs. Not suppress us and the reality of the impact to make your life, or abusers lives, more comfortable. It s time survivors stropped having to bear all the consequences, responsibility and blame for the damage caused by this violence and social backlash. I say this a as a feminist but I speak on behalf of all genders.